Are children with gender disorders being treated the wrong way?

The reason I ask is that everyone I know who has changed genders spent a decade of their lives in hell, yet physically became genderless from the transition.

I have been wondering about this for years. Many people would obviously say “no”, especially the above-mentioned friends, but let’s throw a logical argument out there: All the friends I’ve had who changed gender were hetrosexual men who were still attracted to women after the transition, therefore making them gay. As we know that homosexuality is likely the result of a person’s DNA, and their feelings about their gender weren’t connected with this aspect of their sexuality (as far as I am aware) then transitioning doesn’t seem logical.

I have more questions, but it is something I admittedly don’t understand. Now with theĀ American College of Pediatricians ruling that transgenderism of children is child abuse it makes me wonder if my instincts aren’t right.